Elementary school is a challenging time for both parents and children. WomanHit.ru tips that will make the period of adaptation of the child in a new place
As an adult, the child has its crises: is the crisis 3 years and the crisis of 7 years, when the child goes to school. But the last reason is often overlooked and not considered the critical moments of childhood. But in vain.
Most experts believe that a child is ready for school with 7 years of age. The child is not enough to be able to write, spell and count, as many parents and teachers. If you give a child after 7 years, it will be psychologically difficult to adjust to the school setting, as he will know little more than his younger classmates, who in 6-7 years. The child will get bored, because he came to gain new knowledge, but instead listens to what already knew. This can lead to poor concentration and lack of interest in learning.
Experts recommend to give the child to school only then, when he formed:
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The skills of social contact.
Willingness to gain knowledge.
Readiness to go on contact.
The most important point here is the arbitrariness. When formed of arbitrariness, the child understands that there are certain rules you need to follow your emotions you need to control and prevent inappropriate behavior among other people.
Since 7 years, the child seeks to be like an adult, so the school becomes the synonym of adulthood. He now understands that he has a large number of new responsibilities: he needs to go to school every day, homework, discipline. The child has new friends and he learns to communicate, if anything — to resolve the conflicts.
It happens that in this period the child tries to please the adult, in this case the teacher. He begins to tell on other children. No need to berate the child because he is just looking for ways and approaches to new people. At first, the child may become tearful, aggressive, tires: all of this suggests a coming crisis.
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And then it must engage the parents to help the child to overcome difficulties. It may happen that the teacher will stand up for a child in the first place, but don't you worry: after a few months it passes, and the child is again ready to put your authority above the teacher.
Try as often as possible to talk with the child. Ask how his day was, what he was feeling. If you see that the child became sleepy and it greatly affects his health, pagewrite with the class teacher, you might agree for the first time to change mode and you will be allowed to come to the second lesson. Not the fact that you are able, but with the right approach you should have.
Many parents believe that along with the hike in the first class the child should join in the working process, and therefore it is necessary to record in various mugs and sections. Understand that the child is experiencing severe stress, don't need to take on additional responsibilities that will be expressed in the visiting clubs, which he will hate in the future. Instead, raise the child's self-esteem criticism, he always has time to hear. It is important to maintain the desire to learn and aspire to new knowledge. Explain that bad grades nothing terrible, it's a reason to do a better job than "three" or "two" does not mean that the child, some not so.
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Ask your child what he sees on the day. You must allocate the child a few hours a day to play. Yes, he had new responsibilities, but he has not ceased to be a child with all the children's needs.
Art education is not to impose its will, and that the child wanted to live by the rules that will be present in his life always. Do not intimidate the child — he expresses his opinion, defends the position, thus it will boost your self-esteem and learn to engage in discussions with peers.
Celebrate even the smallest of his successes and achievements in educational activities, let the child learn to accept their achievements, after all, not every adult is capable of it.
Be careful about your child's condition and the surrounding environment. You, the parents, the only people that are really important in his life.Follow us on Yandex.The news