Expert WomanHit.ru — that infidelity, as paradoxical as it may sound, committed to strengthen families, not destroy
Many women I know from experience, often bitter, what it's like to be the mistress of a married man. And if, as now written on the Internet, "to remove the white coat", that is, to set aside the lecture, it is possible to detect the psychological process behind joining the "triangular" relationship.
According to statistics, only 5 percent of men from the family goes to the mistress. A major percentage of cheating by men is necessary for the first year of life first child. All this, of course, you can find a variety of explanations. And that the first year of the baby — though long-awaited, but a crisis of relations. And that love triangle, though it seems otherwise from the inside, created to strengthen families, not destroy. Unconscious people get on the side that can't get from your partner without hurting her or him. Paradoxically, the betrayal even more painful experienced partners than building truthful with each other contact.
The most interesting phenomenon, where a statistic is accurate, is that the relationship in the triangle is almost always a secret. Secret husband wife secret, husband to wife, if dubs partner woman. Yes, and the third covers all of that secret, as a rule, as the relationship with the married partner who is a little Pat on the head.
Because the relations are kept secret, and any difficulties they may not be allowed or shared with other people. All this taboo and mystery, to have to extricate himself or herself.
According to statistics, only 5% of men leaving the family to, lubovnicadali: Pixabay.com/ru
Below I will cite the dream of one woman who for several years had expected that her married lover is with her. This man made an attempt to get close to her and away from his family. All this great success has not crowned, but the gap was not followed. Painful for all the way the man and the woman searched for options to stay with each other, but it is obvious that these options were not. In the end, our navideca set point, discovering how much energy spends on hold a relationship that once served them to maintain their own families.
And here's a dream: "I see your ex-lover. He's coming to my appointment, so funny, in a good mood. So I liked him, this man I fell in love. I ask how he's doing. He says that everything is fine. And then wondering if he went back back to his wife. He did not really respond. And we say goodbye. In the new stage of sleep I'm trying to call him and can't. In my soul the incredible lightness".
Paradoxically, treason committed, to preserve the family, not naoborot: Pixabay.com/ru
I had the opportunity to talk to snovidenij and learn from her as she interpreterpath sleep. She suggested that the dream is the theater of her soul. She herself asks: how are you relations with the former beloved. Itself responsible, which is perfect. The answer to the question where he is and who he's with, she really doesn't know. And then, when I try to call, there is no connection. This means that she interrupted herself in an attempt to revive their relationship. And now it's easy.
In this case, trust the intuition of snovideni, as personal interpretation is the most correct. And wish her luck. Because of this life lesson, she became a master in the subject of honesty with yourself and other people. Honesty is the base context and any long-term relationship. Now for snovideni this inalienable truth.
Maria Dyachkova, a psychologist, family therapist and host of the personal growth training Training center Marik Khazin